i dont know why people keep saying friends wit benefits? i mean doesnt all friends include that? why dont we just say it out loud for what it is? fuck buddy. *acting like a one night stand and shit*
i dont have a sertain fuck buddy, going round and round (not really like a hooker) becasue i dont have a settle partner yet, like i said in my past post im up to one hopefully but dont scream hello before youve crossed the bridge. so i will keep my mouth shut. I have friends who has fuck buddys or friends with deliscous benefits call it whatever dont care who they visit regulary like a dentist but i guess i havent found the one yet, mr fuck me.
if you are in the place were you dont own that guy or girl dont give up and lose hope you are so (well) close! just relax and follow my step by step tutorial and you will be all fine…!
Step one: choose your target, put the sight on him or her, know the history behind this X person. ask yourself after a little research
1. does she or he have a boyfriend or girlfriend? if yes back the fuck of and chose another singel person.
2. have this person ever had a fuck buddy before, if yes why dont they see eachother any more, if no this will be interesting.
Step two: meet this person at an event, like a party or a after work thing, or maybe just a chill thing with drinks at someones house. The best thing is if you two know eachothers name but not so much more, you want to be mysterious.
Step three: flirt with this person from distens, then little later in the night go and say hello, at this moment this person should have know that you have tossed a few blinks at him or her, maybe done a flirty in-bubmpy-clumsy at him. Go and talk super flirty but keep the mystery, dont be all over her or him, keep it down so that he or she will come after you, go outside and sit down and talk maybe lead to a little kiss. now you halfway in there! now go home together, at a hotel is best, the place you choose to be now at the first night is the night you will be later on too as well. choose carfully.
Step four: after sex say “this should be done again sometime… i will call you, if thats okey?” this person will hopefully say yes, if not you are back at square one again = start over its game over. Dont wait to long with the call, 2 weeks aprox and call one day ahead if this person can not meet up that night ask at the same phonecall “when do you wanna meet miss/mr?” this person will set a date and you will keep doing this until you will fall in to a scedual, a rutin.
Step five: Now you have a fuck buddy, at this moment you should both be clear that you are not ina realtionship togheter, also rememeber that friends with benefits sometimes loses the benefits casue one of you or both will start liking eachother more than just pointless sex. be aware and open for new ideas and check yourself at the doctor becasue this other person may see other girls or boys at the same time.
The what if…step: if you get jealous of your fuck buddy for seeing others, talk to yourself and your partner about this, this often resoulvs in feelings for eachother. If you dont want your fuck buddy anymore? say that you had a reat and fun time toghetter, but you have to move on and get a real partner now. Be aware that it might turn awkward between you guys later on in the future. what if he treats you like crap? go, dont take money, credit or anything, he or she should treat you like a human being with hell of respect, keep that in mind.
hope this will help, it will! comment for more questions! xoxo